We have football season, flu season and holiday season. Now, get ready for divorce season.
It seems like more people divorce in January than in any other month. Is this true? And what is the reason for this uptick in marital break-ups?
New year, new you
While the wheels get set in motion in January, March and August typically experience the highest number of divorce filings. Of course, these may result from a process that began much earlier in the year. Many people may start considering divorce and researching their options before making their decision.
So what are the reasons behind this trend? Consider the following factors:
- The holiday season can be stressful. Financial strain, family obligations and forced merriment can take an already fragile relationship to its breaking point. Not wanting to initiate a divorce during the holidays, many people hold off until after the new year.
- January is considered a time of fresh starts. New Year’s resolutions can inspire people to evaluate their lives and decide where to make changes for personal happiness and growth. This may include ending an unsatisfactory marriage and starting the year with a clean slate.
- Couples who decided to give their relationship “one more try” now find themselves at a crossroads. Returning to work and school and the end of holiday gatherings allow couples to focus on their unresolved issues.
- Finalizing a divorce at the end of the year doesn’t make good financial sense. Being able to file jointly for one more year gives both partners time to strategize for the next tax season.
Divorce is life-altering, and it’s vital not to make any rash decisions based on the calendar. If you are exploring your options, you will want to discuss your concerns with someone you can trust. They can help you talk through your options and choose your next step.